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This past week we have talked about Time Management, why it is necessary, why we should do it, some of the challenges and tips on how to be more successful.  All of this info from a lot of excellent credible sources and yet I feel we missed a little something. Let me be on the record as saying that without our shared family calendar, life would be even more chaotic than it is naturally with two working parents and twin boys.  Because both my husband and I have fluid work schedules it is … [Read more...]

It it time for you to start being assertive?  There’s a big difference between being assertive and being aggressive. Assertive behavior is all about drawing healthy boundaries in your life so that your needs are being met. This can be hard, especially if you are a people-pleaser or hyper focused on caring for your family. It’s easy to get lost in the madness of raising kids, marriage, work, and life. How do you know if it’s time to start developing your assertive side? #1 Let’s answer a … [Read more...]

It’s true...I probably have a million post it notes all over my desk and really should have them slapped on the forehead of all my kids, so I don’t forget ALL THE THINGS. So much can get lost in the chaos… But these moms have some way better ideas about helping the family stay on track. #1 When you Have to Give Medicine This is a genius hack for keeping track of giving medicine. It’s especially helpful when you and your spouse are taking care of the sick … [Read more...]

Moms are amazing! They wear so many hats and keep the family running like a well oiled machine. It’s a privilege to be a mom, and just like anything that has value it takes a lot of hard work … Momming comes with it’s own problems that we all face. One of the best ways to survive and thrive in motherhood is to find good friends to share your life with… Mom friends, your spouse, and family can all be apart of your support group so that you can be the best mom for your family. These life … [Read more...]

Your body language speaks loudly when you are in conversation, whether with co-workers, friends, or family. When you make a conscious decision to use your body language to communicate with others, you will have improved communications, more opportunity to connect with people, and ultimately be more likely to influence people. We’ve found 10 ways that can hurt you when you are trying to communicate with your spouse, a family member, or friend. Try to avoid these common behaviors so that … [Read more...]

Communication is the foundation for a healthy marriage. Both people in a marriage need to be seen and heard. Marriage is a place that your needs and wants should be met without stomping out the needs and wants of your spouse. If assertive behavior makes you feel uncomfortable, you might be thinking of aggressive behavior, someone pushing their agenda without concern for anyone else. But assertiveness is actually the middle ground between agressive behavior and passive-agressive … [Read more...]

Resiliency is built over time in the face of adversity. Nothing can prepare you for the challenges that life brings until you are in the midst. But you can be inspired by the stories of those people who have stared adversity in the eyes and walked away stronger than before. The beauty of resiliency is that it is a quality that ordinary people gain by facing extraordinary challenges. Challenges impact all of us no matter our station in life. Let these quotes encourage you to face the … [Read more...]

A woman who takes a 2-3 year career break will sacrifice 30% of her potential lifetime earnings.  Because most women who take a break have a goal to return to work at some point in the future, I strongly encourage women to find some opportunity to engage professionally during that pause even if in a very limited capacity.  Keeping your skills sharp and staying relevant in your industry allows you to be prepared for the unexpected. This is just the story of one woman. Jane (not her real name) … [Read more...]

We all know that it’s important to invest in our relationships. The companies we work for spend time on team building activities because it allows people to work better together. Team building in marriage can have similar benefits, you can learn more about your partner’s strengths, weaknesses, and interests. If you’ve been married for a few years, then you have both experienced changes in your life whether it’s having kids, moving to a new place, changing jobs, or just growing as a … [Read more...]

Have you ever had an idea that you needed to present to your spouse to get him on board? Maybe it’s a large expense, a family vacation, a home renovation, or a new job opportunity. You know you want his support and you want him to be just as excited about this idea as you are… But it’s not as simple as throwing it out on the table. Presenting this idea to your spouse will take a little finesse to win him over. Use these 7 tips to present your idea and win over your spouse! 7 Tips to … [Read more...]